i worked hard for my birth plan. from all paragraphs, then in point forms, a check list, then how disappointed i was that Dr. K refused to even look through my birth plan (instead she suggested me to give it to ANY doctor available during the birth of my baby), i want to give, by far, the simplest version of the birth plan i could write.
i do not want to be discarded as another faceless mother-to-be that they had to grudgingly attend.
again, i am not hoping that they will follow it to the T, as that would only be a wishful thinking and they would just say “but…we are a government hospital!”, i would not give up hope.
i bet there are at least ONE wise and experienced doctor in HSB who have heard that there is an existence of such thing, and he/she could be understanding enough to at least accommodate to some of the requests.
or else, in this short span of time, we are thinking of changing to another hospital as i might been seen as a nuisance and difficult just because i have opinions and not just being submissive.
a birth is supposed to be an enjoyable moment and not to be feared of.